Thursday, February 28, 2013

生命,难得。可贵。

生命是如此脆弱 我们常常以为生命的尽头离我们是多么的遥远多么的遥不可及俗不知生命可以忽然消失般的不见了 其实活着本就是件非常幸福的事! 生活上我们追求这点儿渴望着那头儿这点的小事那里的难过常常把我们气得鸡飞狗跳泪流满面看开只不过是过云烟有什么好跟自己过不去的
生命不在乎长短只在乎它可贵?
活着真好!

Sunday, February 17, 2013

美貌让男人停下,智慧让男人留下.



最近看了自由讀寫人士,中國大陸資深直銷/組織行銷研究專家,業界最知名的清流觀察評論人之一的文章, 觉得挺又意思的。不知不觉的,忽然拾起想写布落格的心情。呵!打从大学毕业出来工作到现在,已经过了一年半的时间了。我呢?可喜欢极了现在的生活,每天都过得很充实,人家都说读书的时候是最开心最无忧无虑的,差不多每个开始工作后都会怀念起读书生涯,和朋友一起作战读书考试,嘻哈玩乐的日子,我怎么就还是喜欢多一点工作的日子,尤其是在我现在工作的公司上班之后。哈哈。所以呢,能把兴趣和工作合二为一是幸福的!我很幸运,很珍惜,在读书时期,不同的阶段都遇到了很多很多很棒很好的朋友,然后工作后加入现在的公司接近一年后,也在努力的为自己不停定下的人生目标,方向,努力奋斗着。世上无难事,只怕有心人。2012年是很好的一年。实现了几个为自己定下的target.希望今年还是像往年一样好,应该说,要比去年好!哈哈。*贪心* LOL. 只能努力努力努力往前进~!! 是时候回归正题啦~

女人一定要有钱,情妇也会输给你,忘了在哪本书看过,但内容印象深刻。笔者是一位女性,她的父亲曾教她如何当一个女人。她被父亲带到高级俱乐部,去看那些女人如何和她的父亲相处。後来,她结婚了,他的另一半没有情妇,只有她一个女人。她学了什么?她学会了如何打高尔夫,如何评监美酒;她会了温柔聆听;她学会了表达自己的意见;她学会了摄影;她学会了舞蹈;她学会让自己高贵美丽;她学会经营自己的事业。她不取悦男人,但男人喜欢她。她不是情妇,却叫人难忘。

女人,要懂得经营自己,「白头偕老」已经快要成为神话的现代社会,女人拥有一张长期饭票的机率越来越低,当婚姻破碎了,金钱纠纷很容易导致男女双方恶言相向,受害的一方往往是女人。即使婚姻幸福的女人,也有机会单独面对现实人生,因为妇女普遍比男性长寿八到十岁,年轻守寡的事也时有所闻。在职场上,女性普遍比男性处於劣势,女性收入普遍比男性低,即使同工也不同酬,女性换工作的频率也男性高,公司裁员多半先裁掉女性员工,显然,女性比较不容易领到退休金, 就算领到退休金,也少得可怜,因为,男性总是将低微的工作分配给女人做。

年轻的时候,女人觉得这一天永远不会来临,总是很乐观的认为「船到桥头自然直」,女人总是逃避现实,缺乏居安思危的观念,不愿意去想倒楣的事,等到问题发生了才烧香拜佛,祈求上苍眷顾,帮忙降福改运。其实,女人如果尽早学会理财,为没有依赖的日子做好准备,命运可以掌握在自己手中。


前一阵子,「女人要有钱」这本书卖到缺货,不仅女人在看,男性读者中也十分抢手,作者是美国主妇茱蒂.瑞斯尼克,她强调:「女人要青春,要美丽,要遇见好男人,更要有钱才会幸福」。女人从来不替自己的未来生活做打算是很危险的事。作者在书中一再对妇女洗脑:「聪明的女性寻觅的是一个温馨和充满关怀的伴侣,而不是长期饭票。」, 她说:女性必须体认到,白马王子早在50年代就绝迹了,而且职场不是一个公平竞争的地方,如果女人完全依赖别人,可能导致个人健康和财富的损失。茱蒂说:女人开始投资和储蓄,起步越早成功的机会越大,越年轻开始充实这方面的常识越有利,在能力范围内牺牲物质享受, 学习精打细算,为未来做准备,不要甘於贫穷,才能拥有真正的自由, 当然,绝对不可为了金钱而不择手段。

高职毕业的台湾名女人何丽玲,曾经在一次访谈中说: 「我很小就明白,美貌和理财是女人一生最重要的事」, 她提到她的祖母告诉她:「女人读书成绩差一点没关系,但是一定要懂得理财」。 她在八岁时,祖母就开始训练她理财观,丢给她一本帐簿,教她如何记帐, 帐本里有两百多个互助会名单,这个国小二年级的小女生,开始跨出理财的第一步。何丽玲也说过一句发人深省的话:「女人能年轻多久?可以无忧无虑多久? 身为依赖成习的女性,有时候我们该思考,如果有一天发生意外状况,我有没有能力自给自足?总有一天我们必须靠自己想办法过日子,只有自己才能保障自己的未来」,因此,女人要有钱, 并不是要追求享乐,而是生命的尊严。她说:「如果女人懂得理财,懂得独立,人生就是你的, 女人无法在厨房中要求独立,学会理财才是追求独立自主的基础。何丽玲在职场和情场的成功,不是没有道理的。


有些女性认为理财是男人的事,懒得伤脑筋,也有些女性害怕自己太能干,而得不到男人的爱,但现实生活里,看到许多例子,懂得财务规划的夫妇,婚姻比较幸福,会理财的妻子也比较能够得到丈夫的欢心,身为一般妇女的父兄或师长,为什么不能趁早指导女性学习金钱观念, 如同教育她们举手投足像淑女一样。


「女人一定要有钱」再穷,也要去旅行! 脑袋决定你的口袋,口袋里的自由,决定你一生的幸福,决定你脸上的笑容。


1:永远不要让任何一个男人成为你生命的全部,要懂得投入越多,失去越多的道理.


2:不要为任何男人放弃自己的个性,其实并不是你迁就他,就可以让他觉得你多好,恰恰相反,男人更喜欢有自己个性的女人.

3:千万不可以为了爱情,放弃事业,很简单,选择爱情,一旦爱情没有了,你就什么都没有了,选择事业,即使爱情没有了,可是你还有本事赚钱养活自己,还有属于自己的生活.

4:不要企图依附男人生活,没有人会对寄生虫保持永远的热情.

5:不要过度的索取,如果你爱他,那么为了你们的将来,你应该珍惜他的收获,为你们的以后做好规划;如果你不爱他,迟早会离开他,那么不要在分手后,让他有机会在别人面前说你只是贪图他的钱.

6:不要在你的爱情遭遇第三者时,一味的妥协,原谅.要知道,有些事可以原谅,但有些事是一辈子的伤痕.

7:不要在生活的细节上计较那么多,要知道,大部分男人,是孩子,需要你的照顾.

8:不要在发现你的爱情没有爱了的时候,还固执的坚持,有时候,放手,不光是给他自由,还是给自己一条生路.

9:不要认为谁离开谁就活不下去,要知道,你的生命来自父母,除他们之外,没有任何人值得你付出生命的代价,而你的父母只会希望你快乐平安.

10:不要把你所有的钱花在他身上,女人该对自己好点.

11:不要为任何人打扮自己或把自己搞得不修边幅,要每天都把自己装扮的干干净净,漂漂亮亮,美丽,只为自己.

12:不要为任何人放弃你的朋友,忽视你的家人,要知道,如果有一天爱情不在了,真正在你身边支
持你的不是那个曾经的山盟海誓,而是这些人.

13:不要把世事看得太重,我们生活在这世界上,都是戏子,台上的演,台下的看,所以,演得时候认真,看得时候就不要太认真.

14:不要总是用眼泪去打动去挽留,有时侯你的眼泪适得其反,微笑,一定要自信的微笑着面对一切!

15:不要看低自己,每个人都有自己的优秀,他不懂珍惜,就找懂珍惜你的,他不会欣赏,就找欣赏你的!错过这一站,只因为最好的那个在下一站等你.女人~能靠谁呢?单身父母、婚后靠另一半!又或许谁都不可靠!因为人心会随着时间去改变!

女人该懂得:靠山山会倒、靠水水会流、靠人不如靠己

为自己的青春买单、为自己的幸福买单!加油吧!共勉之。=)

Thursday, April 12, 2012

I'm back!


Hello, long time no see! aha! I am lazy to blog nowadays..after starting my working life, it's been even worst..haha..sum more all of us addicted to FB, instagram and twitter..seem lk lesser ppl blogging or reading other's blog..*trying to find a excuse for myself* LOL....Instagram is now available for Android! come on! let's meet at ther -- shervyn_tan. Follow me :)) Nevertheless, Instagram sold to FB for 1 billion $ couple days ago. $1 billion!!!!!! It's ironic that as Instagram hits $ 1 billion value, mimicking the feel of these disposable cameras, the biggest producer of them, K*dak, has filed for bankruptcy. Each waves that crashes as followed by another. The only question is who is already positioning themselves to surf it, Are you up for the ride?


I'm stray from the topic again, zzzz...My blogging genes activated today..let's update u some of my recent life..*wink* I just back from historical Cambodia 2 weeks ago..and celebrated my birthday at there..the weather is too hot and dry! ohhhh!!! will blog abt the cambodia trip asap and the details abt the tour guide and the hotel, sorry for yet to reply the fb msg, those abt the cambodia trip. will give u the contact number and PIC soon. ^^ As previous year, my babe Phebe, gave me a birthday surprise again! but tis year the surprise done together with my love one and my dearest, vion! Another post abt my birthday celebration with my love one, phebe and vion, and the celebration in Cambodia with the hotel staffs...and also another one with 3 of my >11 yrs relationship hometown ji muis! I will rmb all the these, thankiewwww...so sweettttt! love u all!

Sharing with you some of my recent life and photos =)


Before going to work, snap a photo first! Teheeee

Photoshooting session.

tried hard to act cool~ LOL


Historical cambodia with me =)



I'm kissing the hot Cambodia sun! ^^


As you know, I'm in excited mode as usual, and always! -.-


my prince of white horse, pak ma wong ji~ =P



Huge lotus pond while on the way to the floating village *Cambodia =)


time to bed! tomorrow have to work! good night =)
see you at next post! love XOXO


Friday, February 24, 2012

Choice - Chance - Change!

Joined a charity shooting couple weeks ago..











Helloooooooo!!!
So long I dint updateeee...
I'm busy! REALLYYYY..haha!

satisfy and appreciate my life here =)

Sometimes, we must make a choice to take a chance or your life will never change.

Get born, grow up, discover the world, discover yrself.

evythg is very good and I thk I enjoy too much aside of my works. @@

Hopefully I able to update in this weekend!
many things happen ard me after I graduated and I did a lot of things that made my life so memorable and colourful..wanna share with u guys all of the little thg in my life! the place I went! the foods I ate! the person I met! awesome! :)

Small person with big dream! wuhoo~! LOL! Dont ever give up! If u cant fly- then run. If you cant run - then walk. If u cant walk - then crawl. But whatever we do, KEEP MOVING forward! Yeshhh!
now is the office hours, have to stop here!

Do miss me and I am here real soon~~ phewittttt =P

Quote for todayyy:

When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile :)

Wednesday, September 7, 2011

S.U.N.d.a.y ♥


It's Sunday! HOHO! And this time I having moved up to USJ! I have just discovered a nice Korean restaurant when meeting up with my company customers. da lang~!!! this is the place! Han Woo Ri Korean BBQ Restaurant in Taipan, USJ! After that, I dated quite numbers of frens to here but at last all changed to Sunway Pyramid coz of their convenience! but never mind, See? I was coming also!!! wahaha..cant resist to the delicious food SERIOUSLY !! ♥



Korean food is one of my favorite comfort food other than Japanese food! ♥




nice atmosphere right? AND wait for my next visit ! ^^
here is quiet, more peaceful as opposed to some busy, bustling, hotplates sizzling places.
Of course, hope that the business is sustainable. else I have no place to go next time. hehe




And the friend with me was..........♥♥
Stephanie Xiao Pei!!! A blogger that I addicted!


The world is so so small!! I visited her blog since March of the year 2010, and I'm stil a newbie to blogging. One day, when I going for Clinique workshop, Guess what?!! I saw her in my uni!!! omg! Strangers are friends you yet to meet! I dropped a msg to her as I need the photos that's taken in the work shop for this post ♥ And our friendship "grow"~~haha BUT!! this is not the end of the story yet! I remembered that a new opened restaurant invite bloggers for food preview, and then we exchange the hp num so tat I can go the place with her, and I just noticed that our hp num just diff with 1 digit! and the other 9 digits is totally same and so for sequences! what a coincident! LOL! fate to be friends! XD




Say Hello! =D




And her friend, Jack, a humorous guy that we always break into lots of belly laughs when we listen to him =P




Oh, must try their set meals!! the price is affordable and lots of choices.
Definitely there are no BBQs for the set meals, but too bad they are onli available for lunch.





Their side dishes, or banchan, is on the dainty side.
it's refillable when we finished a particular side dish.




Yummy!
their Kimchi GOODDDDD




Chicken BBQ
And one thg must be mentioned, their service is good.


Nonetheless you can ask them help to grill for the chicken or pork, to avoid the oily and BBQ smell stay on your clothes.




I like this set meal absolutely!
forgot wat name ady.
the slices of beef was wonderful succulent!!
I can feel the juice run inside my mouth as i bit into it!! I LOVE! =)


BBQ pork


I like their BBQ as it didn't have any bones or "blood".
*drooling*


3 of us with the foods!
A BIGGGG satisfaction!!!


the middle, A FREE large dish of tasty Korean glass noodles cooked with mushrooms, eggs, vegetables and some meets. The glass noodles super springy and taste abit like "dong fan". It served much bigger than we anticipated. Fulllllll


US ♥♥♥


And a finishing touch will give to you, barley and rice tea.
kinda like. forgot to take the photo pulakkk





AND after that, movie time!




ZOOKEEPER @ The Curve!
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Unexpectedly nice movie!
Fun and hilarity.
enjoy this entertaining looking comedy and romance packed movie~



"kei Tak Sek" at Kepong! their main branch.
some said that the food in their branch at SS2 not as nice with this main branch.
i duno? However, the food I having at kepong...I'm satisfy! ^^
and here was packed with ppl, and the crowd dint seem to get lesser.



Talk abt FOODDDD...yeah!





Must try their tong shui! Famous with this!
I ordered "sweet kap" and Stephanie ordered the "fa shang hu"
thumb up!!

very recommend.
bside, many savour their famed "Lo"... LOL
next time i will try for their Mango "Lo", as i saw that the shaved ice surrounded with fresh mango chunks topped with mango puree and sago.



There's a variety of of snacks also available along with desserts.



skewered siu mai..wuhoo
It is nice to eat as plain.


we ordered wall band also =)

with lotus paste inside.It blends well with just a little sesame topping on tops of that. but for me, I feel a bit oily.



Juicy and flavorful dumplings .


And



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just cant stop to eat and snap photos...



END ♥




Thanks for xiao pei's photos =)

Saturday, September 3, 2011

Weekend ! ♥


Weekend clears away the rust of the whole week! There are not enuf days in weekend! Friday and Saturday night is alwiz still young for me! LOL! don't u??


what to remind u that u r getting older? Yes! Middle age is when u'r sitting at home on a Saturday night and the telephone rings and you hope it is not for you. XD


Planning to blog abt my weekends long long ago! and this time will show u how I fully utilized the time in the weekends! HAHA! Here are the some of my activities in the weekends, some photos are still wif my frens and some I had forget to take the pic!! T.T as u know, when i starting to chat and talk...what also can forget..zzz..hope these can satisfy u guys! XD


- Weekend in Malacca -

historic city of Malacca! Yea! tis is the third time I cuti-cuti Malaysia in Malacca for this year! no idea, I love to makan so much! satay celup, cendol, Nadeje, a very famous pastry shop that selling mille crepe !

bored with the same Korean restaurant?
Yeah! change of restaurant mayb a refreshing idea for u!!
da lang!!! here! in malacca!


Unlike restaurant in shoplots, this was housed in huge mansion.
bside, foods in Korean House are more localized to suit the Malaysian taste bud.
like their first arrive, pumpkin soup!


Bibimbap! (korean stone rice)
if u ever had korean food, u must have tried bibimbap! ♥

I forgot what it's name.
so called, korean "nian gao"
nice but spicy ^^

BBQ + steam egg ♥


spicy tofu soup.


Next station! durian cendol!
personally, i like it more than malacca cendol. ^^

^^

And first i tried this!
recommended by wen.
Tart Tart bakery

They are famous with their cheese tart.
a lots of choice here.

the interior of the tart tart hse.
ermm..the comment frm us,
=X


and then,
Jonker Street!

play around wif the toy selling there.LOL!


our heart are still young! HOHO

Chicken rice ball.!
this shop that suggested by wen very nice than the shops I tried last few times.
so bad i forgot the name.


eat eat and walk walk ♥


- Weekend with Uni-mates -




Babe Phebe purposely came over to KL to acc me to do some impossible mission!
Yeah~ a sweet memory and
I DID IT! I reali cant believe! =)



to meet up with Vion and Lipo aft the Eason's concert night @ Pavilion



@ Dragon-i,
My super duper love



Lipo, so bad she worked in penang now..T.T
so we jst can catch up evytime without her..
See? the power of Eason? she purposely came to KL aft work on Friday!
LOL



My big head heng dai ^^



Snowflakes again lol
Desserts will not be enough to feed me!
Soya series! alwiz my choice~♥




AND
this fellow finally appeared b4 lipo leaving! XD




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- Nicole's Big Day -



- DELICIOUS at Jalan Tun Razak -



so nice the atmosphere, dont u thk so? ♥



worth to pay it right. HAHA


HAPPY BIRTHDAY girl~!♥



A big Strawberry Yogurt cake, kuriko's ♥



wif B'day girl ♥



A kiss for u, my dear =))
A good year ahead!


we are here for each other since we are in secondary sch.
And now all of us start our working life! time flies!
and Sam,(the right hand side), my 19 years de bestieee!!!
19 years!!! can u imagine hw long we are together! LOL =D


♥ u girls!!!!



-pattern @.@-



A must try!!!
chocolate cake nice mix wif vanila ice cream, and the hot chocolate melt inside,
Hot + cold = LOVE!


Desserts alwiz have some kind of spell on me! HAHA



okay, have to stop here! to be continued! share the fews weekends 1st! I'm going to off to bed! good night world! sweet dream =)))